We have been sleeping separately for a long time because of the withdrawal leg twitches keeping me awake all night negatively affecting me the next day with exhaustion. I have tried countless times for him to go to the doctor to get medication. He drinks during the day and finishes at 8.30pm he says he can drink in moderation.
This morning for the first time I packed his clothes and he took them to his office. He has told me how he is peaceful and that he doesn't need a doctor he just needs rid of the woman in his life.
He was drinking before I met him he seems to have forgotten. I have had codependency issues for many years. I wanted to see if he loves me, crazy behaviour and I don't drink.
I tried to get him to return home apologising. He said he is comfortable sleeping on his office floor in peace and if he returned he wouldn't be sleeping in the bed.
He brought up some things I told him in confidence previously to hurt me.
Some times life takes a funny turn