I really hope all goes well with your husband that must be extremely stressful

warmest wishes xxx

Praying for both of you. I'm so sorry. May you get passed this too. God will do what is best. Trust in him as I did....big hugs...

I hope he stops drinking and comes through the surgery with flying colors.

Good luck to you both.

Thank you need off the hugs and prayers
Possible.
Many hugs and prayers for everyone dealing
With this terrible desease.

The words back pain just caugt my eye. My AH had his spinal fusion 4 months ago and I think he expected immediate relief. At that point he was sober. When the pain continued and he didn't want to take the narcotics I guess he decided to go back to the vodka. Then one day the 2 were taken together and I left. I hope you're doi g better than I am.

Well we will be off for Richmond to see a new doctor for his back surgery. I see him struggle do much with this pain and knowing all of this came from his alcholism but still he drinks up to 10+ beers a day.he can be loving and easy to talk to one minute then the next no logical good comom sense.
The good news is, I have started to plan my future. I have been trying to get a small piece of land near my children so if I have to leave I will have a start. My husband is awarebof this but I have stuck to my guns and
told him this is my retirement. He knows his life is short due to his own doings so he is not fighting me anymore about it. Somestimes he goes back to his gready self but it will pass.
Im with him till the end or until I can not take care him anymore.
I am to the point I just live day to day with his alcholism. Im have to look out for me too.
thank you all I still need all of you all input and comforting advise and support.
you all are great.
Thank God for his kindness and love