Now it's the 5th, and there isn't much more left in either one. But he swears they are at Half......
So I've taken some pictures of the amount of liqour he's been drinking, and even with him seeing his bottles are almost empty after only a week and a half, he still says he doesn't drink too much! He drinks these straight along with a first thing in the morning beer and all day long beer when he's not at work.... I am just at my wits end. I'm to the point I don't care if he puts himself in a coma, good and gosh darn well, serves you right, on Dec. 11 we'll be married 38 years and i do not remember a year without alcohol. But hey it's not my body, brain, liver, kidney, pancreas......
It may NOT be your "body, brain, liver, kidney, pancreas......", And he doesn't appear concerned at all. As you say, he doesn't even think he has a peoblem. That is his issue.
But it is your anger and frustration. That is your issue. May I suggest Al-anon to learn to deal with your issue.
I've been thinking about that actually. There is a program through the VA - Vet Center here where I live, I've been thinking about going. Just to deal with my issues. We are both Veterans, however I think a lot of his anger and drinking is a result of being in combat. I was not.
But it is your anger and frustration. That is your issue. May I suggest Al-anon to learn to deal with your issue.