Yes, we are grown women, hell, I am 50 for fucks sake. It seems the drunk runs everything around their alcohol, us included. Don't do this when they are drunk they will get mad! Keep quiet, daddy's sleeping off a bender! Gotta wait for the drunk fuck to get out of bed at 9:00 p.m. to eat dinner.

We put up with a lot and choke back our anger because arguing with a drunk is like arguing with a tree, but the tree would have better comebacks. I don't want to fight but I do want to get my digs in even if he never learns of them. Maybe it's just me, but I may act like a door mat until I leave him, but I am also sneaky and get my digs in when I can. Here are some of my favs:

He's a cheap fuck, so I take money out of his pocket and get some starbucks or something he hates (HE HATES STARBUCKS).

He hates my music for the most part. I am a 50 year old death metal fiend. I listen to music young people would run away from (Norwegian black metal, thrash, death vocals that sound like the cookie monster, you get the picture). Usually I keep the volume down so I don't bother him. NOT TODAY BABY. I am blasting all the bands he HATES and he is sitting in the other room taking it. I play:

Anything by the band Ghost, but especially ZOMBIE QUEEN

Anything by Mr. Bungle

Bloodbath

Anything by Mike Patton (Mr. Bungle, Faith No More, Tomahawk, Fantomas, etc.)

The Melvins

Funeral Doom with death vocals

Music is always playing, it's get me through tough times, always has since I was an abused child.

To give you all an idea on the music I play, I will provide youtube links. Most of you will cringe in horror but to me it's like classical music.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQDaWoWwqdM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fq5s0KrFkmo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBfoMgllphs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cr8qJu6sp44

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7_5BeyPo_M

What little things do you do to your drunk to let the good guys win just for a minute?