So for the second time my husband gave up drink - he tried this time last year and he lasted 3 weeks this time 2 weeks it's soo frustrating because we as wives have to bare the brunt of it you feel disappointed and let down as you are hurled verbal abuse at you and this person you love with all your heart loves alcohol more than you and I can feel the drink level creeping back up he seems to be more and more drunk each day after work I think he thinks that if I don't see him drinking it doesn't count but I told him even when I don't see it I know but it's not for me its for himself to get betr he's meant to be seeing an alcoholic councillor on Tuesday tho I feel what's the point if he can't even try I can accept slip ups but I don't know if he's willing to keep trying so in the mean time me and the children are his verbal punching bags and it's just a matter of time before he get a DUI !!