So to be nice I told my AH twice while sober of my plans for Easter Sunday (same plans every year).  I went to church with our grown children and grand kids, visited his elderly mom, then went to our daughters for a cookout and egg hunt.

I didn't expect church for him, he showed up at his moms as we were leaving (and we stayed at least an hour). After hanging out with the kids, I went home to find him starting up the lawn mower. He drove it around the house and parked it back in the garage and went back inside... I asked why he didn't come over to visit with the kids and of course his response was "I didn't think you wanted me there". Why should it matter what I want, that's never mattered in the past 30+ years. I'm so tired of being the one that holds our family together, if he sees his grand kids its because I bring them to the house. I tell him its over, i'm done with this life. His response he's gonna drink himself to death... That used to work, sorry it doesn't work anymore. God help!  Well I quess I should be thankful that I had a wonderful and pleasant day with the loves of my life!