This hasn't happened yet, however I know it will. Unfortunately I left before for two years and he weasiled his way back in...I am stronger now, It will not happen!! However my teen will flip out when this happens. What is the best thing to do?? Gvie her the option of living with him, or telling her she has to stay with me, due to me being afraid of him?? I know she will need to be in counseling. Also, she kept asking me before if I was getting a divorce, I told her no, I wish I had just told her yes before. Now I think I will just tell her yes from the get go and let the chips fall where they may, I AM DONE with this marriage. Thanks for any replies. j