my AH won't admit he has a problem even tho it is getting worse and more serious by the day but now not only do I have to deal with the emotional abuse but now I find him looking at porn - I hate porn but i get that men like it but we don't have sex much any more it seems he's more keen to go on those sites and it really feels like I'm useless I'm d verbal punching bag when he's drunk and then he would rather go on theese sites , has anyone else had theese problems does porn go hand in hand with the alcoholic?
My AH was on those sites all the time, not so much anymore. He was also on Craigs list under Missed Connections". Don't know the reason why it has lessened . It makes a wife feel degraded in my opinion. It's really impressive when your computer screen saves the most frequented sites and three of the icons are porn sites. I think it goes hand in hand. Both addictions suck!!!
Ah I'm relieved I'm not the only person , it does make you feel degraded and not worthy as if the alcohol wasn't enough have deal with the porn to , I think your right tho that's also an addiction