I found the best blog about addicts from an recovered addicts point of view. This blog could be a game changer for many, if not all of us. I have a link to just one of the blog posts, but also go through the other topics as well. It will open your eyes to what you are living with and how to change you thinking about your alcoholic spouse. In a nutshell, he says that they are all being selfish little children, afraid to grow up and live life, the way the rest of us do. I hope this will help make this year better than all the rest. God bless!

http://privilegedaddictwriter.blogspot.com/2015/02/a-message-for-parents-and-spouses.html

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