so the AH is on 3 weeks of no work after his hand surgery for the most part it hasn't been to bad as i'm working all day and doing my thing he's usually passed out by the time I get home. But yesterday mid day he text to inform me that "he was trying to be nice" and left our 10 mo Lab out of her kennel and locked up in our bedroom and bathroom while he was gone... All I asked was what did she tear up??? His response was of course u blame me! Well no I didn't but how stupid of u, did you not think of what a puppy would get into??? I still tried to be nice and it's like he was looking to get pissed at me and blame me since she's my dog. Insiting if I wanted to spare my dog I will take care of the mess. (she torn up the carpet around the bedroom door which was the only damage but the magazines that she tore up made it look worst) So he's texting me this at work telling me TODAY the carpet will be fixed! I'm in tears because he's home alone with my dog not knowing what hes going to do to her. I had my daughter go over and take her home with her. He continue texting me saying I blame him, I love my dog more than him then says that I know how to make this right! What does that mean? Sex of course! The nerve of him to say that, it  just reminds me of why I can't stand him while he's drinking. How can this man be so sweet when sober and be such an ass when drinking? All because he doesn't have me wrapped around his finger and pretending that his drinking is fine.... Its not fine I hate it, I can be right at the edge and thinking just give in and I see him pick up a bottle and it hits me like a ton of bricks! I know I choose to sacrifice myself to make everyone else comfortable even him, but I don't know how much longer I can last.