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just need to vent

bonblue
bonblue
Well it's a mother few days in paridise my AH has been drinking more and
Getting more depressed but of course I'm the bad person because I just
Don't understand. It my fault that I'm upset with him for being so hateful
And ungrateful.. I should just take what ever and how ever he wants to say
Things to me and act Like everything is good... Nope... When he make me feel
Because I start my spring cleaning and mind you he does not work I work a
Average of 6 days a week . So it does take me awhile to get things started
Do I hear Looking Good no ... I hear Thank God... I'm like what ...of course I
Took it all wrong like all the other times he gets smart with me then
When I snap back ....he was just joking .. :-( makes my blood boil I tell us.
Other that that not a terrible day. I slept thru the rain.
I am done venting thank you all for being there.
Have a great Weekend
KatieDarling
KatieDarling
Sorry bonblue that your AH is being a pain in the arse!! I am glad to hear that you did something for yourself and got some rest. Take care sister!
Ginny03
Ginny03
Hope the weekend was better bonblue! Sending wishes for a peaceful week. Try not to let his stupid remarks get to you - you know how hard you work, trying to get it all done. He's just deflecting because he knows he should be helping, if not doing it all as he's not working!

Hugs to you!
bonblue
bonblue
Sorry for the long delay in the answer. Life has just been so craz
He is still the same Ile same ole.
I just find any and every reason to stay gone. I know that sounds
Bad but it's the only time I get peace.
Update on my escape home. It's is comming along I still have lots
To do but it's there.
KatieD and Ginny03 you all have a great week
Ginny03
Ginny03
Hey bonblue! so glad you have an escape home where you can get that peace that is so needed in our lives! It doesn't sound bad - it sounds smart. Enjoy working on and making plans for you space! Hope it's a great week for you too.