WINGS Community Group
This is a place firstly and foremost for Support for all Women.. Whether it be every day life issues, family or emotional support, we care and we are here to listen and support, to share the good things in life as well, to smile with each other and to give gentle encouragement and pleasant thoughts along the way.. Please feel free to ask for support and post in the...
And I Didn't Get To Go " !!
I'm sad for you too Ziporah :-(
I think with my friend she lets her husband and one of her daughters control and manipulate her. She has a heart problem in that it beats unevenly sometimes, she has had to have her heart stopped and restarted twice, the second time her daughter went into labour 3 days after she came out of hospital and rather than consider leaving her two girls with her Mother in Law which was possible she still got my friend to walk up a big hill to pick them up from school. The 2nd op seemed to work but her last blood test came back low and this again is because her daughter keeps landing all 3 children including the baby on her. She loves them dearly and she loves her daughter too (my friend has 4 children altogether) who has gone through some difficult times, some unfortunately of her own making, so my friend doesn't like to say no but now she is just taking advantage of this. Her husband is a verbal bully but in a subtle way, he controls by manipulation for example even when she was told by the job centre while he was there that they would not sign her off to work because she could hardly walk because of her heart problem he still expected her to find a job and I am afraid of losing my friend for good because of these two people. Sorry kinda got on my soap box for a bit there.