It does hurt like hell table4one. We all were put on this path without choice. Not a one of us wants to be here. But here we all find ourselfs. What do we do now? What would our past loves want for us? To give up. Stop living? I think not. If they truly loved us they would want us to find happiness again. Perhaps not today or tomorrow but sometime soon. They are gone. We are left here to carry on the best we can. And carry on we must. Because if we do not than two lives were lost with one death.

Ok Yes I am recently widowed after 36years together, the pain is awfull and the loneliness just as bad, I keep very busy, and that helps.

My husband died when I was 7 months pregnant. He's been gone 5 months this month and our son is almost 2 months.

i got a job a week after I gave birth and started working 2 weeks later. Nothing seems to help. Keeping busy or not. Sure the hell wasnt supposed to be like this.

Yes, it does hurt like hell. The aloneness, the emptiness, the crying. This is a club for people who never wanted to join, but can never leave. It is unfair, to make it this far in life, and feel like the future is nothing but sadness and loneliness. It does help to air your frustrations here. God bless you.