Widows & Widowers Support Group
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Why does God take the good and leaves behind the bad I don't understand my husband died and the last 5 years where the worst for him he got a call from his younger brother March 2014 and found out that is sister who was a nurse and never got married and never left home had a stroke and was in a nursing home comatose and I had to call every nursing home in okc to find out where she was and that his brother who never got married or left home either had died at home and his mother was in a nursing home and when she found out that her son had died two days later she passes away and my husband younger brother was living with all of them because two years earlier his wife died he also had a stroke and was living in a nursing home and it took him 7 months for him to be able to start remembering who he was and his brother phone number this all happen in the year 2013 and when my husband brother finally got a hold of us it had been 7 months after all of this had happen we were having our own health problems I had fracture my left hip so I had just gotten out of the hospital when he called my husband had diabetes since he was 3 and was having some health issues and when he found out about what had happened he called his aunt on his mother side what had happened and he was closed to her he talked to her at least two times a month and she wouldn't talk to him until he said he was going to call the police did she say what had happened this aunt and another aunt both sisters of his mother had broken in to the homes of his mother's and took everything out and made phoney power of attorney to get into bank accounts and buried his mother and brother without telling my husband and wouldn't let him see his sister so we got a attorney and fought them for 5 years and while his sister was in the nursing home they took 300,000 and built a home for his aunt and had their attorney make a will for his sister and had everything his sister had was given to his aunts she had 500 acres and mineral rights and her band new truck and his sister never signed the will because she was comatose the attorney and her Dr were the ones who signed her will and they also used a power of attorney to stop feeding her and 7 days later she died and they buried her and didn't even tell my husband and they way we found out was our attorney called their attorney for a question crooks here in okc scary what people can do with a power of attorney you need a living trust and recorded it with the state
I have heard so many horror stories like this. Ours was that my sister-in-law tried to steal my husband's inheritance. It took a 4-year court battle to finally get what was rightfully his, and his sister had already blown through thousands upons thousands of dollars and sold property and pocketed the money. Her betrayal led my husband to become depressed, to chain smoke and eat compulsively, which led to his high blood pressure and heart attack. His sister essentially created the circumstances that killed him. I will never forgive her.
I have taken all the legal steps I can to protect my family from ever facing that kind of evilness again.
I am sorry you had to go through this.
Love and Hugs,
Martha