Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I cannot imagine 3 months, or a year, or 2 years, God, much less 10. Already, the silence at home has just becoming deafening and I find myself wanting to escape it any way I can.
All I hear is the a/c running, and the tinnitus caused by baby aspirin roaring in my ears, broken only by the occasional complaint of a furkid wanting some dinner or attention. The loneliness right now at this moment is just excruciating.
I know what it's like to just want to go back to sleep and sleep the day away. The week, the month.....
Been there done that before.
I do NOT want to go back there.
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what kinds of things do you do...
yo help ease the lonliness. The positive stuff. Hobbies, activities, causes, etc..?
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I like to garden too. I have not had any desire to do any of it! It takes all my strength right now to go to work and take care of the house and property. I have to sell my house as it is too big for me and we live on one acre. but I am sure that once I get a smaller house I will once again enjoy those things again.