Widows & Widowers Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

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maryelnew 04/19/2015

and last night had to have my car towed and my husband was a mechanic...not sure anyone on the "outside" truely gets it. Feel like I don't have to say more here. Just exhausted today. I am striving to stay up for 2 more hours and then off to bed.

nowjustme 04/19/2015

Hugs to you,
JoAnn

letmehelpyou 04/19/2015

Hoping you have a gentle rest tonight.
Hugs, val

themaster 04/19/2015

This morning was 2 months, for me... And today has been rough.

mannie123 04/19/2015

My heart goes out to you who are struggling.

dschwartz 04/19/2015

Unfortunately these things do happen. Frustrating trigger to have to have a car towed and repaired even if you weren't married to a mechanic. Double whammie there. I hope you sleep well tonight. I'll be sending healing positive energy your way. Hugs, Dayna

matoacalady 04/19/2015

So sorry for both of you.....I had the 3 months last Thursday, rough day is all I can say.

wendimac 04/19/2015

I know how hard it is...it's been a month for me, too. My husband passed March 19...and the tears just never seem to dry up. Hang in there...it's the best we can do sometimes.

SandyV1 04/20/2015

I feel your pain on this one. When I had to get a veterinarian to deal with one of our dogs and he did a poor job, I missed my husband so much. He would have done a careful and gentle and meticulous job.
Hugs, Sandy

davephil 04/20/2015

I am feeling for all of you that are hurting so much. This is so fresh for al lot of you. Please keep talking, and expressing, and reaching out. I think it is a very important step in the healing process.

GeorgiaW 04/20/2015

Just a short te ago so many of us were living lives with a future expanding out in front of us with so many possibilities and now we measure our time in days, weeks and months since our lives as we knew and loved them ended
I have always envied my friends that died with their spouses and now more then ever

sandeestttn 04/20/2015

I hate the "who to call" problem. Last year, my tires kept coming off the rims. I was stranded. A policeman called a tow truck for me. I ended up having to buy new tires. One every payday. I now have 3 new ones. Waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I am so sorry.

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