Yes... had my husband come to me in a dream 3 times, about our daughter, and then about he couldnt be with me anymore. Have heard him tell me to come on at my bedside.. our daughter felt his presence. Its a real occurrence. Feel free to go to the "widows of faith", lots of wonderful spiritual realities... much love and hugs carla

Yes.. Oh yes.. I started to tell our kids that she has spoken to me in a strange place..not a dream by definition.. Two weeks ago i actually felt her next to me, ran my hand slowly up her body and touched her face.. it was in a darkness of some kind, then she spoke to me, She said, " you feel so good".. then i was fully aware of the scene, no longer dark.. she slid her hand under me and i was amused because i didn't feel the physical touch but seen the movement... I whispered to her, " I'm grieving heavy".. she replied, "yes........I know you are... she then mentioned one of grandsons twice.. Once again i saw her rosy radiant face and she was crying... Yesterday, Christmas day his father took him to the children's hospital because of some symptoms that usually go away due to colds and sinus infections that all young kids get... Come to find out, he has an infection behind the eye.. thankgod it was caught in time, it could have been very serious....very serious,,, just one of probably twenty or so messages done in different ways she has sent since passing in July... My logical mind has been knocked on its posterior, Too deny it isn't happening to me would be a greater insanity than acknowledging what is becoming obvious... Stay sharp and alert, they can tell you volumes in just a few words or a momentary glace at dream time.... or do things with electrical stuff... I also had all four can-lights blow out at once in the bedroom... the television in the bedroom being on and i dont watch TV...She did...lol.....so i don't know how to explain all the little things that have happened except through some type of serendipity... We were together for 47 years....not long enough considering how long timeless eternity is... I think its very had for them to come back here...but they certainly try..

One other thing i'd like to add.... My Wife was named Judy...born in 1950. not 1951 as the poster above my original post... but its stuff like that happening... probably means nothing...just a coincidence

Before, my husband Dennis passed we had worked out a code to let one of us know if there is an afterlife..It was to happen on my birthday which is also our anniversary..He passed suddenly in his sleep and I found him...6/14/2015...
I had forgotten about our code, but the morning of my birthday I woke and was laying in bed and remembered it...I said I wanted a dozen red and a dozen yellow roses..I told him he could go to one of our three daughters in a dream and tell them...
But, what happened on Birthday/Anniversary..was totally miraculous..
I was working in my front yard replacing a sprinkler head I had taken out with my riding lawn mower..When my youngest daughter pulled in the drive way, and got with a dozen each of red and yellow roses.. and I started to cry..she said, geez, Mom they're just roses..I said honey, you don't even know they are so much more..Then I told about the code...Then she Mom, better sit down I've got something more to tell you..
She was at Costco, and was headed for the check-out when she looked back and saw the roses, and said to herself, I think Mom, might like those..she went back and got a dozen red and a dozen White and once again headed for the check-out..she was standing in line, when she thought someone had touched her shoulder, she turned and looked and at the same time saw yellow roses in the distance, got out of line and went back got them instead of the white..She it was almost like she didn't even remember doing it...we had good long cry, while smiling at the same time..
Dennis, was a skeptic, But he Loved me and our girls and would do anything to help our grieve..
I and my daughters and one grand daughter was close have also, had...
Peace and hugs...Laurie..I'm sorry for your loss...I had a weird experience with bulbs also, about two weeks ago..I do another post on those...

Laurie, I should have done a proof reading before posting..I hope you can fill in the blank spots..;-)

About two-weeks ago I was having a bad day, and told Dennis I need a sign he's still here..
About, an hour later I was sitting in my kitchen, having coffee..when one of the bulbs in my ceiling fan blow out, I went downstairs too get a new bulb, and brought up two..I changed the one, sat down and few minutes later another one blew..I replaced it...and smiled and said thanks Sweetie, I needed that..but..I went upstairs and turned on the fan light over our bed and one light blew out..I thought great, Sweetie, I only had two of the fancy bulbs, too replace the ones in the kitchen..so I went and looked and low and behold..I found One last fancy bulb, in another cupboard..and replaced it..No more have gone out since...;-)...I've other experiences with lights also..
One other sign from Dennis, was my daughter had a dream, where her Dad, came to her with a friend, named Ray..she said do you know anyone with that named that died?..it took me a minute then I remembered Dennis, had, had a friend named Ray, who had died of a heart attack, when he was in his 20's..long before our youngest daughter was born....he had lost touch with him pretty much after High school...She described him and I said it sounds like him...she said do you have a picture I said just the one in your Dad's yearbook..She came over and I gave her the book, didn't say anything..and she picked him out...She said, Dennis and his friend were happy and looked younger..
He said tell Mom, I love her and I'm fine....and was gone...
We've all had signs, with music, that he liked his favorite, What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong.. and Rod Stewart's, Forever Young.. which I hear often when I'm a bad day..
The grand daughter who was close, with Dennis,has had a few dreams about him, says he always come to her smiling and winks at her...
She was married in Hawaii, last summer and I didn't go, to close to Dennis's passing..so I gave her my Garter too wear, that I had worn fifty years, before...They were married on the beach, in Maui..
They went to a nice Restaurant after for their wedding dinner...When they all were seated to eat..she said it got kind of quiet..and then It's a Wonderful World came over the restaurant, inter-com...My daughters, grand kids that were there and even my two son-in-laws starting to cry and smile..and said "yep Dad, Grandpa is here...;-)
Hoped I haven't bored you Laurie, but I think it's good to share these stories and signs we receive, from our Skeptics...I Believe...I'll see Dennis again...there are just to many signs, not too..Take care...Gail...

There is that serendipity again.. In the old house where we lived until five years ago, we planted two very special rose bushes 30 years ago, a Red denoting her, a yellow denoting me.. I planted a new Red here and a yellow.. Some of her ashes are now with the red, and some of mine will be placed with the yellow.. The Beautiful Rose, so magnificent and yet has been known to draw the blood of the admirer... A hell of a lot like love.

Outoflevel, ..Dennis was cremated also, as I will be...We live in a beautiful State, with beautiful Red Rocks and Forests...When I pass are kids are going to scatter our ashes by a beautiful river with, pine trees and that also has wild Yellow roses growing by it...but when you look in the distance you can see the beautiful, Red Rocks...It's close to Capital Reef National Park, in the state, where Dennis and I grow up...and spent many days of our lives camping with our kids and friends...I made it through another Christmas...which brings me that much closer to being with him...For now I'm enjoying and appreciating..the life "We" created...they are beautiful souls..I'm grateful..;-)

When someone you Love, becomes a Memory, the Memory becomes a Treasure...

I live in Utah.. so, i know the visual you just spoke of.. This is my first Christmas without her...but, we had a large family...and like you i'm grateful for it..

You live in Utah where? I've lived here all my life as did Dennis...small world...;-)

Christmas Eve and through Christmas night, my cell phone called over 20 people at all hours of the day and yes night as well. These calls were done while I wasn't in the room or had my phone unlocked, so a cat or my dog could not hit the phone and generate the last call or message placed. I was speaking with someone very important to me and my husband and she received calls when my phone was making a call appearance (to her at 3 AM, scared her that something happened) My brother, our son, daughter, friends and other family alike all received a call from me and when I didn't answer they thought it was just a pocket dial, but 4 to 5 times in a row was a bit more intense. My dear friend (more a sister really) also found that this was happening to her and her phone as well. She told me that she said to him - Damit Pete Stop, I know you are still hanging around but don't call so doggone early! I did find some humor and irony in this as well since he passed 8 years to the day of my Mother, the same things happened then too, a coincidence I hardly think so especially since he died on the same day.

Yes we were married for 31 years and knew each other 3 years prior to making a commitment to our relationship. All our married life he as well as I knew when a phone call to one or the other was needed. I think after his being sick for the last 3 years he had plenty of time to think about how he would communicate, interesting that he chose the cell phones.

Mysweetie2... West Jordan.

I keep one of her knitted comforters on her side of the bed.... Yesterday i made the bed-up and as i do carefully positioned the comforter again...its exactly half as wide as the queen mattress.. A few hours later i returned in there and noticed a very old nickle laying on the comforter... 1933.. Two days earlier i found a penny in front of her picture i keep on the dresser and thought nothing of it.. I remember now that she loved the movie, Ghost.. Oh and my phone is chiming and whistling at me at the most strange times, not being tech savy with the phone technology, i can't figure out why but no messages or alarms are there... and it has happened often enough at my very low points that i'm questioning my sanity.. I've sat in front of her picture and asked for signs... many times.. It has been five months now after 47 years... This incredible hurting must be making me loose my mind... or she is answering in her way..

Outoflevel, I think coins are a very good sign, that Judy, is around..My Dad used to save pennies and would never pass one by, we used to kid him about it...When he passed I put a penny in his pocket..
After that all of us would fine pennies in strange places, my nephew was in the Marines, and found them on his bed, after it had been made, my sister was on an airplane, and found them in the middle of paper towels, and I've found them in my shoes, a couple of times and many times, just out walking..Look at the dates on them, sometimes they are connected to a life event..This has happened many times to me and other family members...
My Dad, liked all things John Wayne, after he died, my husband and I came home one day, and our new TV, had turned on by its self, and their was a John Wayne movie on..It happened again, about a week later, the same thing another John Wayne movie..My Dad was a very strong personality, and he loved his family..So you're not loosing your mind, Judy is just comforting you..;-)
The week when Dennis, passed we were getting ready to go to Lake Powell, with our kids, who own a houseboat, down there..He passed on a Sunday, and we were going to leave Friday..
I told the kids to go, as he would have also..When they got there they were loading the houseboat, when a beautiful Monarch butterfly flew in and landed on the table, and stayed for about 5 minutes..They said could it be a sign, Dad is here..Then they were out in the middle of the lake, on a float tube when, two white butter flies, kept flying around them, they couldn't believe it, becuase you know Lake Powell, how desolate it can be..Then they realized who the second butterfly, was..
My brother had passed a few years before and his ashes were scattered on lake Powell..Needless to say there were a few tears shed...take care..Gail.

I spent the most miserable time of my life up until now re-building a house boat in hanksville.. for six months i'd leave her and go there and work.. the only other time we were separated each day and night.. Funny you should mention that.. Did what i had to do at that time to keep us ok... Launched it and finished minor work for a few weeks.. I sure wish i was there right now and heading home for the weekend..

Lake Powell is such a beautiful place, peaceful..Dennis and I spent a lot of time there..My parents lived in Kanab, we'd go visit them and we'd all go over to the Lake...We sold our boat a year, before he passed and I sold our Montana fifthwheel, in June almost a year to the day he passed..We loved the outdoors and spent many weeks at Flaming Gorge also, another beautiful, Place..I have a lot of great memories, as do our kids and grand kids...It was a good life...and I miss it and Dennis..but I do believe I'll see my Skeptic again, to many signs not too...And you'll see Judy again, she's letting you know she's holding your hand, something Dennis and I liked to do....Happy Trails, Gail..