Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Do not wish ringing in your ears on anyone.......ugh
The way I learned to deal with it was to accept it as normal. It took a while, but eventually I did. The problem with the ringing is that it is abnormal. People think it may be something serious. It rarely is and for some it will just go away, but there is no cure.
The best with seeing the doctor, but here is a link to white noise sound which many sufferers use. It runs for ten hours so you can at least sleep.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzjWIxXBs_s
There are several other factors that can create the likelihood of tinnitus. Some can be ruled out with a blood test. Beyond what the cause could be, there are a number of things that will aggravate tinnitus. If your late husband had it, you may know already what some of those things are. For myself, any NSAID painkillers - ibuprofen, aspirin, naproxen - will aggravate it. Unfortunately, chocolate and red wine seem to as well. Diphenhydramine - the decongestant used in Benedryl and in sleep meds like Nytol - also boosts the volume on mine.
You should see a doctor and get a proper exam, as well as a blood test.
I never worked in a typically noisy industry (like construction or manufacturing), didn't go to a lot of rock concerts, never had any ear infections, so it has been hard determining what caused mine. The most likely culprit was a trans-Atlantic flight a few years ago that was extra noisy and which I was not offered any ear plugs for protection. Now, I never fly without ear protection, even though the damage has been done.
Some tinnitus is linked with hormonal changes, low thyroid, magnesium deficiencies, TMJ, recurring sinus and ear infections, and a host of other possibilities. For your sake, I hope yours is temporary and clears up. Mine has been awful. I have special hearing aids for it, but that is not ideal. I hope you will be okay and it goes away. If it doesn't, please contact your doctor and get the proper exams and tests that may be required.
Hope this helps.....
Love and Hugs,
Martha
I can't get into an ENR until 29dec, however I went to our local
clinic & the doctor looked in my ears & no wax buildup but there
was infection & my blood pressure was rather high. So he
prescribed antibiotics & steroids for 10days. Fingers crossed
that it works.... I will update..
Sorry for those that do have it..... JoAnn