Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Karl
There is a widow who is in quite a predicament..don't know how to help her. Recently her son kicked her out..she had moved in with her son & girlfriend after her house was sold & was trying to save a little bit of money to get something smaller. Turns out her son's girlfriend wanted her out..so he kicked out his own mother telling her that he is a grown man & shouldn't be living with his mother. Never mind..that this was his own father who passed away. This is so heartbreaking & cruel..does anyone have any suggestions to help? I suggested a shelter but there are none near her & she has no other family.
Cynthia
What city is she in? What is her age, health, and does she have any skills?
Down the street, though, Burger King still lives by its motto, "Have it your way". I get 2 beautiful red slices of tomato and one nice curly piece of dark green lettuce, all included in the price of the sandwich.
Which burger place will I patronize??? You got it. Screw you, McDonald's. And I'm not a cussing person 99.9% of the time. I hate McDonald's.
I always keep reusable cloth bags in the car and sometimes use them for groceries but, to date, there is no charge here for plastic or paper bags. Gasoline is high but I think most people are just driving less to offset the increase in costs. I have never been a "coupon" person but my daughter faithfully "clips" and she says it makes a huge difference in her grocery bills. I have friends that own an upscale resale shop and ran into one of them the other day. She said their business is doing very well as a result of the ecomomy.
I would like to think that things are going to improve but I am afraid that we are in the third year of what may be a ten year downturn cycle. There are many issues that will have to be addressed before our economy will turn around and things will get better and, right now, everyone (in positions of power) seems to be very busy but not actually doing anything to correct it.
I carry reusable cloth bags in the car to use for my groceries..and I usually shop Aldi's for most items and then Kroger for the rest. I always have a very gas efficent car and that saves on gas....still hate paying for it however! I make soups and stuff and freeze and reuse later.
I also shop thrift and consignment stores ofr clothes and even house decor! You can get really nice items at a much cheaper price.
Frank was German..so being thrifty was a way of life! We did spend money on travel.
Maggie
ask for no water ...60 cents extra on an already over priced drink....
Belvidere?? - where is she living now? I once got a speeding ticket in Belvidere. Have her call a hospital social work dept or social services for help finding a place to go. Terrible story tho - let us know how she makes out.
It does cost for sports, clubs, etc...and the cost depends on the activity. Most hold lots of fundraisers to herlp with the costs. I don't know of a single one at our school that cost $1000! I think Band is our most expensive activity and it is about $500. But, that is ONLY if you are in Marching band...you can be in Concert Band for free. Goodness...where is this school?
As for the cost of lunch...that went up in our district also. Everyone is feeling the rising cost of food. Schools do get some commodities from the gov't but it's not all the food that is served..it's things like cheese, fruit, etc. You can sign up for Free and Reduced lunches at any time during the year....and we have many families on it. You might check to see if you qualify. The students here all use a code for their lunch nd have food accounts parents can deposit money it.....so no one knows if your code is deducting a percentage from the cost or you are getting it free. Also, milk is included with all meals. We do sell water and juices in large bottles..they have always been a $1 here...which is actually cheaper than they sell for in the stores in that size.
I can tell you that as a teacher I spend my own money each year for supplies that parents will not supply....pencils, pens, paper, etc,.....and the one that gripes me the most for some reason...Tissues! I have high school students who will sit and snort and carry on because they do NOT carry tissue on them when ill. You can get it in little apcks that are easy to carry! INstead, I average going through 2 boxes of tissue a week...120 students a day....all on my cost. Some teachers will not supply it but I do as the option is to listen to the snorting and seeing them wipe it on themselves and the desks...or send them out of class constantly to blow their noses. For some reason, the elementary teachers can ask for every supply imaginable..but high school teachers have to foot the bill. (I do get $60 a year from the school to spend on academic needs...workbooks, a video, a learning activity, etc for the room.)