I'm newly widowed, so I'm not where you are, but I do understand. My husband and I were in our late 30's when we met, and neither of us had been married before. I had to kiss a lot of toads before I met my prince. In fact, I got to the point where I have actually given up on dating, and he had to, shortly before we met. His best friend had invited him to a barbeque at their home, and I was a work acquaintance of his friend's wife and accepted a last minute invite which I almost didn't accept. Dating before the internet was difficult enough, I couldn't imagine meeting someone online. Perhaps a good place to start would be to join a church group, or take a class, or join a club. Or maybe let friends know that you are interested in meeting someone.

I think you should try a dating Web site. Trolling for a mate here is inappropriate and in VERY bad taste!!

Hi my name is Brenda we can be pen pals on here if you want, let me know bye for now

Wow...Brendalee......BE CAREFUL!!!!!!

The web sites are not all they are cracked up to be, there is nothing wrong about sharing your thoughts on here, and I don't think he was trolling for a woman. He sounds like a decent man looking for a friend, and what else can we be to each other here than friends.

Good luck to you it's hard to date after loosing someone you loved like that. But moving on dose not mean you put her behind you she will always be part of your relationship because she will always be apart of you this is something you should realize it will never be you dating someone it will be you with her memory around you dating the woman you date will feel that it's not an easy Rd you have to find the woman who dose not feel like she is competing with your passed wife but embracing what she had. You might not understand this right now but you will

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