Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I finally found the perfect resting place for my beloved's urn in my new place along side the flowers I dried he gave me that awful nite 6 months ago ( for some who don't know he left suddenly on my bday) I found a ceramic heart w/angel wings carved on it to put there as well. Missing him much , the nocturnal sleep style taking its toll, I feel like... here it comes again the tsunami of grief, eyes welting up as I sit frozen and powerless seeing the wave come in....its not a shrine but certainly opened up the box of some painful grief emotions.....trying to keep trudging so hard....
I recognize that tsunami all to well. All we can do is brace ourselves for it as best we can. It's like it has a life of it's own. At eight months I still get hit with it. I have learned how to swim a little better so I just flow with it until it runs it's course. But every time it comes and goes we get a little stronger each time. Please take care of yourself. It will get better.
Peace, Tim