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Lois11 05/01/2016

I have our Great-Grandsons this weekend ages 6 and 7.
The 6 year old was 11 months old when Ken passed .
Today I watched him. He stopped his play and just stood stareing at Ken's picture. He had a smile on his face never took his eyes off him. He nodded his head and then went on playing. This little man as a 1 yr would babble in his crib. His mom asked him who he was talking to he Pointed to a corner of his room and sai Poppa. Kept saying Poppa and pointing.. he had the same picture I have in his room since Ken's passing.
When his mum was carring him out of his room he pointed to the picture said poppa and then pointed to the same corner as earlier.
I believ Ken was there. Payed him a visit and think he did today.
The older grandson then out of the blue said I miss Poppa's cakes he made.Think he was here helping me watch these guys
Lois

eighty8 05/01/2016

On June 12th, 2015, the last words I spoke to Marylou, which in her comatose state she only heard in Spirit, were that our 9 grandchildren, especially the younger ones, would know her through me...that promise to her is my only reason for living.
I cannot wait until they feel comfortable enough to talk to me openly about their grandmother...and I dream of the day they are visited by her, as I have been many times, and as your greats were visited by your husband.
What you describe are definitely visits...not a doubt in my mind.
Please read anything by Patrick Mathews, especially "Everlasting Love."

onebrokenheart 05/01/2016

My Great Grandfather visited me in spirit when I was little. Over the years my family has tried to convince me that I could not know anything about him as he passed before I was born. They have never convinced me. I know him. He is one of my guardian angels. When I was four I slipped out of the house and went for a walk in the woods. He guided me that day, kept me from harm and led me back home. At four I did not know I was not suppose to "see" him. or I was suppose to be afraid. I did not see him in the traditional sense. I saw a shimmering glow and heard his voice in my head. In my heart I knew exactly who he was. As the years went by I stopped seeing his spirit but there have been times of great stress and also of danger in which would come to me the strength and knowledge of what I needed. I believe my guardian angels stepped in and helped me.
I do not normally share this as I have been treated with skepticism but I am hoping you wont try to convince your great grandson that he does not know your husband. As he gets older he will tell you about it if he feels acceptance. Rest assured your family is being watched over. Blessings to you.~~~Cheryl

tim57 05/01/2016

Sounds to me like you had a co-baby sitter. That's a blessing. Linda came to me a couple of weeks ago. I was left with the feeling she will return again when it's time.
They aren't dead just moved into another deminsion. We will all be there one day when our race is ran.
Peace, TIm

Rainbow27 05/01/2016

Lois, I do believe Ken is watching out for all of you. His spirit is surrounding you with his love and caring.

raininseattle 05/01/2016

This is one of these things that are unmistakable in my opinion You can't make this stuff up. I suppose one could, but it wouldn't have made sense to do so.

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