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Truhal
Since I'm about to become a first time home buyer, I was wondering about security. Being a widow, I find myself becoming obsessed with safety. It's a townhouse, so I'll lose the security I now have in my 3rd floor apartment.
My question: Does anyone have a home security company they could recommend. So far all I know is ADT.
My question: Does anyone have a home security company they could recommend. So far all I know is ADT.
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After they refused to support my old system and wanted $500 for a new one and $198 installation, I did some research on the internet. Seems they want a three year contract these days (no one seems to know why) which doesn't set well with everyone.
There is a difference between wire and wireless (can't remember why but wire is apparently better). If you are creative you can keep the wire and siren relatively hidden.
Motion sensors were part of the package so they were installed. If you have pets you don't need to turn them on.
I pay extra for someone coming when the alarm goes off.
There were many false alarms on the second sytem but they were the result of faulty installation (I had the same excuse of being set off by a mosquito).
I also pay a rental fee for a remote control which you can use to turn on the system at night or when you leave. You can get more than one if needed.
You can give a trusted neighbor your password and ADT can call them in the event you don't answer the phone and/or need to cancel a false alarm.
I opted to not buy the system. They own it. This works for me since I don't plan on going anywhere. If you choose to own, ask about taking it with you.
Because of rapidly changing technology, find out about your responsibiity/liability for system upgrades. Be sure to get everything spelled out in the contract. Find out options to cancel or change the contract before the three year expiration.
Be sure to get the rather extensive booklet of instructions.
I agree, the emergency numbers for fire etc., are very useful.
Some of my problems have been cultural but as I said, I couldn't be without it.
Hope this helps.