We are all changed forever. Whether we saw it coming. Or like you and I. We were taken totally off gaurd. I don't know how old you,your boys or wife was. I'm assuming young. My wife was taken from me at 53 very unexpectedly. We were empty nesters. Second marriage for both. No children together. Living the dream. Than she's gone. I know the sleepless nights. I know the no one will ever replace her. You must be strong for your kids. They are counting on you. Please don't disappoint them. Good thoughts and best wishes.....

I am so sorry for you both having lost your soulmates. Its just a little over 2 years. As time passes, it doesnt get easier, you just learn to accept the unfortunate truth of they are gone from this physical earth, as we know it. I will say this, they are still there with you in spirit and in your hearts. They will never leave you, or forsake you. I tell people, everything happens for a reason, we may not know it, like it or understand it, but it happens regardless, sometimes. It also happens rather we participate in this thing called life, or just let it pass us by. There is no end to the grief, only acceptance, of what we can not change. It's no ones fault, just a matter of life, unfortunately. My husband died in a tragic accident, my third marriage, finally found my soulmate at almost 44 years old, and then he passes away at not even our 2 year anniversary. If anyone can say loss sucks, I definetely can attest to that. May god surround and keep you both safe, and pushing forward. If I had been the one who had died, I wouldve wanted my husband happy, rather that was by himself or with someone else to love him, and him love them back. May peace surround you, and may you both know your bestfriends/soulmates/wives are still watching over you both. Much love and gentle hugs, carla

Thank you for your kind words Carla. My best thoughts and good wishes go out to you as well!!

Your so welcome, annes husband. Just remember, life is always about choice, and I choose life, as much as I can until my purpose is fulfilled. When we die, there is nothing we can do. I remember asking my husband what he believed.. he said, "When it's your time, it's your time, and there is nothing you can do to change it". He also said he believe if you did things right you went to heaven, if you didn't then you might have to come back." I believe that we go to heaven...and there is no returning, but that our spirits are everywhere, just like god is, but in a different way. We will never lose, or not have our memories of our soulmates. No one can ever take that from us. much love and hugs carla