I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. It is a nightmare, emotionally, physically and yes financially. Add to all that you have this little one to care for, well I can't imagine what you are going through. Take it one day at a time. This is a slow process that refuses to be rushed. Hugs and peace to you.

I have been where you are. I have 5 kids; the youngest was born after my husband died. You are right about not having time to grieve. After all this time I am not sure if I ever got it all out. The pressure of raising kids, working, and now going to school take every bit of strength I have left. I am so very sorry for your loss and from where I stand, I feel ya.

Maggie

I am so sorry. My kids were 20, 19 and 14 when my husband passed. It's been almost 20 months. Time helps. But I agree that it is a very slow process that can not be rushed. We grieve because we love. You will always love him. I'm so sorry this has happened. This is a very supportive group.

I'm sorry for your loss and yet want to welcome you to the group. My children were adults when their dad and my husband died of lung cancer. I can say that whether it's one year or 40 it's too soon. And yes, it does feel like a nightmare and one I prayed to wake up from.

I'm sorry you didn't get to celebrate more years together and sorry for the child who didn't have time with her dad. I hope you find help and hope here and I hope you find comfort too. Sharon

I'm so sorry for your loss. We all know the heartbreak that you're feeling right now.
I'm praying that you find the strength to get through each day.

Hugs,
Janie

Thank you everyone who responded. Its nice to know people that do not even know me want to be here for me during this difficult time.

So very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

I'm sorry you have to walk this journey but you are not alone! People youn will never see send you love and hugs to help you pull through the journey. Journey sucks but we as well as you, are here. I have no children I need to provide for, just an 18 pound cat that ia always wanting to eat. What I'm going to post now is from another post I wrote.

I started going through old papers after Sally's death and decided I did not need my divorce papers from 1981. Well, then I had to get new certified copies to prove to Social Security that I was single and could legally get married to SJ.

Important::: Put all papers that you find and receive and place them in one place. Everything! Later if you need one you will know where to find. I'm sorry that all of us have to go though this but I'm finding that writing about it is more helpful to me than trying to talk about the event. Usually when I write I cry and that is ok. Hugs to you and know that you are normal and this process is normal.

Hugs from Big Sky country Montana.

Dewey

I am sorry for the tragic loss of your husband. I know we all feel your pain and dismay. It is amazing just how resilient, the human spirit can be when we have faith and hope. It will get easier. Take care of yourself first and foremost, your baby needs you.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers,
Love, peace and hope,
Sandra

My heart goes out to you...please accept my sincere sympathy.

You have come to a good place; please use it!

I'm so sorry for your loss , I lost my husband 6 months ago and we had been married just over a year. I don't have a child so I don't know how it must feel to lose the father of your baby but I know what its like to be young and thinking you have forever with the man you love then to have it taken away. This support group has really helped me and I hope we can help you as well . It is overwhelming with dealing with all the paperwork and the emotional rollercoaster that you must be feeling. Once things settle down a little you may find it even harder cause you will have time to grieve but hopefully your family and friends will be there to support you and your beautiful baby. I'm still waiting to see if time heals but just know your not alone xx peace and hugs to you.

I know this is difficult, I'm on the journey with you. I lost my Morey 19 months ago......it feels like it happened an hour ago.

Time will go by and the pain in your heart will develop a scab.......you'll pick at that scab and it will bleed over and over again. You'll feel the pain, the loss, the loneliness and the sorrow of losing someone who you thought would be in your life until the day that you both walked off into the sunset together! It doesn't happen that way most of the time. So, here we are!

We're here for you and for each other, every day is different and new.

Lots of hugs,
Roz

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss. It does compound the grief when you're trying to care for yourself and others, but take one day at a time.

It's been 1 year and 3 months since my husband passed, and we have 2 boys (8 & 5). I was 36 when he passed. Just wanted to let you know that you will have days where you cry less and smile at your daughter, and see your husband in her. Hang in there and know that you are not alone.

Geminii74