Im so sorry. Not a one of us that wants to be here, but it helps us to be here for each other. Remember to take good care of you and your child. Sleep, drink lots of water and eat. Hang in there one day at a time, and know that time, time and more time will eventually heal your broken heart. Cherish the time you had together. May God comfort you as He only can. Scottie

Hello, mrshossin0424. I am soo sorry for your loss. I too just loss my wife recently on Nov. 1, 2017. With it all being not long ago its going to hurt for sometime. There will be days when all you want to do is cry. There will be days when you will feel good just thinking about the wonderful times you both had together. You have to takes things one day time. Taking care of yourself and your unborn child. In my experience I am learning that the pain will never completely go away, but it will ease overtime to make it more bearable.

Adam

My heart breaks for you. My husband has been gone for almost 4 months. It is very hard, everyday. You need to take care of yourself and the beautiful child within you right now. I pray that you have some supportive family that will be there for you. Do what you have to do each day to get through....rest, sleep, drink and eat. There is a miracle growing inside you that is part of your fiancé. He is with you and in you. Take each day as it comes. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and be with you and your baby..... Linda

Thank you all for your kind words. It helps to know there is someone out there feeling the same way. I have no close friends or family who know this pain.

What emotional torment you're dealing with. I just hope that each day, you're getting some strength back, bit by bit. I believe you've found a good place to get support and people all over the world sending thoughts your way.

My husband passed just 12 days ago. I have moments where I realize I'm holding my breath like you do before getting punched, kicked, whatever. I remind myself to breathe...take a few deep breaths. It helps when I feel that anxiety.

Someone recently told me that Scott is just in the next room. He's near, and I'll feel that nearness soon.

I wish you peace, I wish you rest, and I wish you health for the sake of your daughter.

I was 6 months pregnant when i lost my first husband..i felt like my whole life was a dream..including being pregnant. My family helped me through it and when she was born it was like a miracle..it brought me closer to my husband..a testament of our love . It does take time to learn how to cope .( Hugs)

Thank you both so mucb for your kind words. I really do hope I feel like that wheb my daughter comes. I need her in my life to take this pain away. I try to tell myself he is here with me but sometimes I lose faith in that. I want him to give me a sign that he is next to me.