My husband died on 4/3/16 he chose not to walk he had a moderized schooter, so we lived next to a quadrapledric (mand not able to walk) they were buddies in the summer time both of them would be under the car port until I get home from work. When I get home bothe would follow me to get home of course I would greet my husband but James the quad figured I should be greeting him also at the same time. So I was busy trying to help my husband in the apartment, and James wanted attention too. This was everyday in the summertime. So now that my husband is gone now. I have a problem seeing him because it triggers me to my husband I get sad so to avoid him I park somewhere in the back so he don't see me when I get home. I don't mean to be mean but I can't help it. Also two days ago he was outside and he moderized almost blocking my van I couldn't hardly get by I waved and hurried up and parked in the back so he wouldn't see me. Also when we all use to seat and talk before my husband passed, he would tell sexual jokes that I didn't appreciate it. My husband would get so mad at him and roll away and wouldn't talk with him and he start rolling away when he would come out. His personality is that he changes aides like you change underware because he has a problem with everyone. So I have to avoid him because he want to talk about my husband so I have to avoid him.

I don't mean to be mean but him keeping asking me how I am doing bothers me and trying to make conversation I just say hello and walk fast to get in my place.

Some suggestions please