I know this is a hard time for you and I am sorry for your losses. You have been put on this horrible path with the rest of us. It is ok for you to cry that is part of grieveing. If I were you I would check into a grief counseling group and maybe buy a journal to write down your thoughts and feelings. If you have children help take care of them and grieve for yourself. Talk to your children and tell them it is ok to grieve. If you do not have children Then remember to take care of yourself and buy a journal.

Oh good Lord, I'm so sorry for your losses. Seems that certain periods in our lives are full of suffering and challenge. Why I don't know. I hold tight to the thought that I'll get thru this dark valley, and you will too. Reach out and keep connected, as you are not alone. May you find peace.

I'm sorry for your double loss that's incredibly hard - I don't know what to offer other than the only way to go on is to go on day by day.

I am so sorry. Double dip of sorry. I will pray for peace for you. I know how hard it is with the loss of a spouse. Take time, rest and don't do anything more than you have to. Be patient with yourself.

I am so very sorry that you lost your baby sister in such a close proximity to when you lost your husband. No one knows how or why these multiple losses occur so close together. It is a real blow to you emotionally and I offer my deepest sympathy.

Back in the nineties I lost my first husband, my father and my best friend all within 2 years. I began to think everyone in my life was going to die. Of course, they didn't, and I was able to get through it. We had a baby born into the family just after the third loss and that made me think the family will indeed go on. And it has.

I pray for your comfort and peace. Share your feelings here and we will be supportive to you when you need a lift. I sure have benefited from the support of this group, over 3 years. Peace to you!

oh my gosh... i am so so sorry

I am so sorry for your losses. No one will ever understand why these things happpen and I dont think we are meant to understand. I lost my wife 5 months ago and my best friend was diagnosed as
terminal 2 days ago. My wife made promise to be strong during her battle with cancer and in her memory I am putting one foot in front of the other. Is it painful, and sad of course. I watched my wife fight with dignity and am going to try and honour her memory by carrying on in my life with dignity regardless of the pain I must endure. Wishing you peace. I am truly sorry. Gerald

I sympathise with you. These two losses in a quick succession must be infinitely hard to bear. I cannot bring you any comfort. We do not feel brave but we are brave in spite of ourselves.

My thoughts are with you. Big big hug. Viviane

My husband Bill and my brother Rick both had cancer at the same time. I adored them both. My brother died 11 weeks before my husband and both suffered a lot. I remember the anguish I felt inside while sitting next to my wonderful husband at Rick's funeral...........my husband knowing he was next.
My husband inspired me every day then.........and still inspires me every day now.
My brother - same thing
They are in my heart and I long to see them again on the other side.

I had a similar situation, shocking loss one after another....My Mom had a stroke two months after my husband's funeral. She survived it, but became bedridden and totally dependent for all her needs...I don't know how I handled that second shock. Soon after that news, I lost my niece whom I was closed to and loved her very much.
For awhile I simply could not get out of a fetus position.
One day I got up and decided to get stronger for those who needed me. It is not an easy journey, but we are traveling that road one step at a time.
Warm hug

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. XX

I am very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way. My niece just miscarried her baby and what was to be a shining light in our lives has now been dimmed. Losing my husband and this precious new life at the same time is very hard.

I don't know what to say. I am .speechless. Just know that you are in my thoughts. My wife was the third recent death in her family. I am fortunate that the others that past were not that close.

they say it comes in threes....

I don't have any answers, but am here to listen. I am sorry for your losses, it is so unfair and painful. I wish there was something I could do to help. Offering my prayers in faith. Sharon