Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Hi Everyone, i stumbled across this site, and so many of you echo just how i feel today. I lost my husband on the 19th. Feb. this year. I found him out in the garage on the floor, and he wasn't breathing. Ran inside to get my Son to call emergency no. The Ambulance were here within a few minutes. My Son was giving CPR from advice on his phone, but he never responded to any emergency treatment. I still can't believe he's gone, and still in a state of disbelief. He died from a massive heart attack.
I lost my previous husband from heart problems also. He died at age 48 after bypass surgery, from post op complications. My most recent hubby died at age 57. and he had a previous heart attack 3 years ago, and had stents placed in his heart. This is just too much, i feel broken, as if i'm not allowed to have a love to share my life with:(
I lost my previous husband from heart problems also. He died at age 48 after bypass surgery, from post op complications. My most recent hubby died at age 57. and he had a previous heart attack 3 years ago, and had stents placed in his heart. This is just too much, i feel broken, as if i'm not allowed to have a love to share my life with:(
My husband passed , Jan 29th...massive heart attack...no warning. I still am reeling.
I also lost my Beloved Daughter in May last year from organ failure. She was 37. She lived for two weeks, but lost her battle trying to recover from her illness. This is just all too much, and i don't believe what people say that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, i am feeling just numb and broken. That is two of my children that have died young, my eldest boy was only 23 when he was killed in a car accident by a drunk driver in Dec. 1995. God this life is awful!
I see other people have a normal life, and wonder why mine had to turn out like this. Maybe if i believed in previous lives and had to go through all of this for some reason, for some kind of lessons i was supposed to learn here, but i don't believe in reincarnation, and if i had the choice to ever come back here after this life is over to do it all again, i wouldn't, of that much i'm sure.
Wanda