Widows & Widowers Support Group

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loveddogs 09/17/2015

Today is my sweet husband's birthday, He would be 64. He now has to celebrate in Heaven with those who passed before. I miss him, I want him, and I need him and I will always love him. We didn't really do much for birthdays, sometimes, not always. But I can still hear him say when I told him Happy Birthday: "Just wait til you get to be my age"! Please give me the strength to make it through all these memory filled days. Today I am not sure I can. Miss you Honey, more than words can describe. Forever yours. Michele

ajm1959 09/17/2015

Wish I could reach out and hug you!!! Seriously!!! My hubby died one day before his 65th B-day. Yep he was 64. In fact at his funeral I had the Beatles song " will you still love me will you still need me when I'm 64 played." My husband sung it over and over to me when he turned 64 last year. But he kept saying will you still need me, will you still FEED me. I laughed and laughed because I really thought it was love me and NEED me. When I copied the song I found out it was FEED me. LOL Know my thoughts are with you. Hugs Arlene

Shrn 09/17/2015

A happy birthday to your sweet husband in heaven and a quiet hug for you. These special days are hard. Sending you my love. Sharon

staygolden3 09/17/2015

Hugs coming your way Michele. I'm sending heavenly birthday wishes to your sweet hubby who is w u more today that ever!
Love to you always
Darcie

AfterMom 09/17/2015

You will be in my thoughts & prayers today. Try to do something kind for yourself today, even if it is small. I am sure he would want some comfort for you on this day.

deremusl 09/17/2015

Michele, I'm sending you a giant hug and a prayer for strength. This is all so hard! I'm so sorry. I wish I could do more for you. Just remember that our friends who have been here longer than we have promise us it will get better. Try to hold on to that.

Warm thoughts,
Linda

joannklingaman 09/17/2015

Happy birthday to your sweet husband Michele. I would like to know what & how birthdays are celebrated in Heaven.

Last Dec 17th was my beloved husbands first birthday in 38yrs that we did not celebrate together. After a cry, I just said to myself, how blessed I was to have all those 38yrs together.

Like you Michele .. I miss him more than words can describe.

Take care JoAnn

katrina777 09/17/2015

Happy Birthday to your hubby, as sad as the memories are this day may they in some way help you through. My hubby died a few months after turning 63. Hugs Katrina

loveddogs 09/18/2015

Thank you all for your Wonderful support! I spent the majority of the day crying and reminising. Just miss him so much and I know you all understand. Just another wave I am sure. And there are probably many more to come. I will just roll with the flow. Hugs and Love, Michele

lmj90 09/18/2015

Hugs to you. I know how much you must miss him as I do my husband. Sending strength your way

ptorres 09/18/2015

Happy belated birthday to your beloved husband in heaven Michele. Peace to you. ~Pete

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