Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I am ashamed and embarrassed by what I posted Sunday night. I haven't gone back to reread the post. Can't bring myself to do it. I was pissed off at the world that night and more than a little drunk. These are not excuses just facts. I can't get my own life in order and I'm telling other people what they need to do. I was a total a hole and 1000% wrong. That's not me (usually) but it was Sunday night. I've felt terrible since Monday morning when I realized what I posted and have been writing this apology in my head since. Finally got the nerve to post it. I'M SO VERY SORRY!!! I hope you can find it in you to forgive me. If you can't I understand that as well. You live your life as you see fit and ignore advice from a holes like me.
To the board mods I'd ask if my post could please be deleted and any associated with it. If you see fit to ban me I totally understand. I crossed a line that should not have been crossed. Again my apologies to scottito, all members and mods of this board.
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I'd choose red...determination,strength,passion and love.. But like I said don't take advise from a holes. ☺
Hang in there. This journey isn't for the faint of heart. I keep telling myself, it builds character. Yeah, right! Turns us inside out, upside down, chews us up, spits us out, stomps on us, and then when it doesn't get its way, it just turns downright ugly and mean. Yup, if we survive this grief, we'll be true Iron Men ! You too take care my friend. Happy Trails!
hugs my friend.
Scottie, you know that I am usually one of the ones that will speak my mind and do not intend any harm from it. Kudos for having the heart that you do and for being man enough to accept so graciously the words from Missmyanne.
To post our feelings out here is to risk being told how we are wrong or even nuts. I myself was verbally attacked on several occasions and never received any apology. So I applaud you for coming forth with your heartfelt apology. Shows you are human and one with a good heart.