Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Hello All,
It is time for me to move on This group has been a great support for and i have made some wonderful connections. At this point in my journey, it is time for me to continue my journey with a few good friends by my side.
I want you all to know that it will get easier. You may not want to hear that or believe that, but it does. The greatest way i can honor my Andrew is to live my life in a positive way and to treat everyone i meet with kindness. Today, i choose to live and to deal with the cards that have been dealt to me. There is no other choice other than misery and that serves no purose for me or for Andrew's memory.
I wish you all love and healing on your journey. Michele
You have been an true inspiration and a joy! I for one am proud to call you my dear friend and to continue on this journey with you!
I understand your need to move forward which entails leaving this board. It can be daunting at times but also so extremely helpful during our most desperate time of need. It’s a comfort that everyone here can navigate at their own pace.
You are so right though when you say that we all have a choice on this journey.
Your choice in choosing positivity as way to honor your Andrew and your life together is uplifting! As you say, dealing with the cards that you are dealt is a definite step in the right direction of acceptance.
I’m so proud of you Michele and your tenacity in living your next chapter with the strength and courage of the strong woman that you are!! The love that you and Andrew share gives you that strength! I know he’s so proud of you and smiling at you with that big beautiful grin and cute chuckle!!!
Boldly go my friend!
Love ya!
Darcie
Love and Big Hugs,
Martha