Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
It has been over two years for me since I lost my partner in May 2007 and I am still on that rollercoaster ride of grief, even though not nearly as pronounced at it was in the past.
After two years, and it will always FEEL like no time has passed, I am very concerned about my fading memory of the physical closeness I had with him (not the mental images) and how this will affect my letting go and how this will change the meaning of my loss many years from now.
Like many of you, I don't want to let go of the deep love with my soulmate, and I know he connects with me regularly from spirit, but I still feel so cheated, alone, and many times sad and angry. Can anyone relate?
After two years, and it will always FEEL like no time has passed, I am very concerned about my fading memory of the physical closeness I had with him (not the mental images) and how this will affect my letting go and how this will change the meaning of my loss many years from now.
Like many of you, I don't want to let go of the deep love with my soulmate, and I know he connects with me regularly from spirit, but I still feel so cheated, alone, and many times sad and angry. Can anyone relate?
I believe this is something we all tend to worry about. Though it is only a short time for me, I feel Rich's spirit around me every day, so I know I will never forget the deep love we shared.
Every time I look at my kids, I also see so much of Rich, so that helps me as well.
I will always miss his physical presence, but I have my wonderful memories, strong bond and his wonderful spirit to help me along.
Much love to you always...Mo