Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I'm so lost without him, he was my everything. We had so many plans for our future. He was only 55 years old and it happen sudden. I'm left with a financial burden and so lost as to how to fix this. David was all I really had. My kids live out of state so I'm all alone now. I'm so scared for the future. I know we are not guaranteed tomorrow so I'm trying to stay in the moment but it's difficult to do. I don't know what to do without him, he was my life
sopretty
I feel your pain and I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband suddenly in his sleep 9 months ago. Please know that everyone is here for you as you go through this journey one day at a time. Be kind to yourself. Some days are just hour to hour.. we all get it and will help you. Feel free to message me. Hugs, Vicki
luckydaughter
So very sorry for your loss, rbushness. You are very early in this......not even a month. I am glad you found this site. Come here often..............we all know the pain of losing a spouse and are here for you. Sylvia
shelda
We sure do and everyone is different how they grieve..I myself have been low too and other days as today i am going to think happy thoughts as much as possible..i read alot of stuff and take walks daily breathing when i can't seem to stay in pleasant land...I truly believe Angels have been here when i look back at my last 8 months of Hell...now am trying to see this as a growth in my spirituality..am still struggling...But I know this ace that cripples me will leave too..Much Love to you :)
shelda
This pain will make me a stronger person I meant to say :)
rbushnell
Thank you everyone for the kind words.
JullD
Hugs rbushnell....I can't say I know exactly how you feel because the pain is so different. Neither can I tell you with time you will heal, however, with emotional support you/we will pull through regardless of how slowly we may choose to do it. Try to stay strong, have faith and ensure your mental health is taken care of, with that you/we will overcome...I lost my husband 18mths ago and I still can't understand what happen nor wanted to pick up the pieces but I have a 15 yrs old that I think I have failed based on silly decisions I have made within this 18mth period but with faith I am slowly and sadly trying to drag myself forward...BIG, TIGHT HUGS do believe you/we are stronger than we know so try to dig deep within and let's take these steps forward. JullD
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