Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
-I still remember what your hair smelt like
-I still remember what your for head felt like when I kissed it
-I still remember what your hand felt like when we held hands
-I still remember what your hugs felt like even though you didn't like to cuddle -I still remember what your lips felt like when we kissed
-I still remember what I felt like when you said I love you
-As long as I still remember you and the things I loved about you, I think I will be OK and I just want you to know that I will always love you too.
I don't know if some of you remember this post that I made on Friday But this post came to me in the car. I have my wifes wedding band, Our sons birth stone ring, And a cheap necklace I had bought her hanging on the rear view mirror . I looked at her jewlery and all this came to me. I pulled over and I said I still remember. I was most afraid of forgetting these things, But realizing that I wont ever forget these things that I love so much about her makes me relieved. I still am depressed. I have a lot of other hardships in life that I have to take control of but I am getting their.
This helped me I sugest that you write some thing you still remember about your other half that you loved. You don't have reply here. message me and if you don't want to do that then write it on paper
Start off with I still remember _______________________ and feel in the blank
-I still remember what your for head felt like when I kissed it
-I still remember what your hand felt like when we held hands
-I still remember what your hugs felt like even though you didn't like to cuddle -I still remember what your lips felt like when we kissed
-I still remember what I felt like when you said I love you
-As long as I still remember you and the things I loved about you, I think I will be OK and I just want you to know that I will always love you too.
I don't know if some of you remember this post that I made on Friday But this post came to me in the car. I have my wifes wedding band, Our sons birth stone ring, And a cheap necklace I had bought her hanging on the rear view mirror . I looked at her jewlery and all this came to me. I pulled over and I said I still remember. I was most afraid of forgetting these things, But realizing that I wont ever forget these things that I love so much about her makes me relieved. I still am depressed. I have a lot of other hardships in life that I have to take control of but I am getting their.
This helped me I sugest that you write some thing you still remember about your other half that you loved. You don't have reply here. message me and if you don't want to do that then write it on paper
Start off with I still remember _______________________ and feel in the blank
As a matter of fact, it is a good idea to do it periodically, and reminiscent in details about those precious memorable moments. Those memorable moments, like the brush stokes of a painter made the painting of our relationship, made it live, real, vibrant, and unforgettable.
you are doing good job working through this process, doing all the things to honor your love, and also making sure you are actively working on your healing.
hug
Hopefully I will never forget.