Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Well hubby went to heaven going on 10 months ago. My healing progressed quickly in June when my secretary of 22 years ended up in the hospital and I had to take on her 20 hours of work in addition to my full time work. Its been good for me though, back with people and youth center at our office, very healing. I am doing much better, too busy to really think. Praying I am just not putting grief on hold. Tomorrow would have been his birthday, a little sad since we spend 47 years together celebrating his birthday. Love you Jeff and miss you daily.
Do you remember the good times and think about how they make you feel?
Do you spend time working on what you want your future to be? Or are you too busy in the present to consider tomorrow?
Have you talked to him/her lately?
If you are building your own life as an individual, that is good, but if you are ignoring or burying your feelings, they will not remain buried. Sharon