Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
is it normal to dream of your husband who passed away 6 months are on daily basis or it's now in the mind... I feel the kids as well are going a different direction as in being naughty they don't listen to me I feel iam a bad mum twins are 3 years old and one is 9 years old...I still feel hubby did not have to die because it was too quick for him.iam trying to get life back hubby had 2 other kids in African whom I adopted as mine now all is left for me as a mum and a Father I lost my job now Iam job searching as I need to fend and support the kids in Africa too if I don't look after them no one would do Iam activiley looking for a job and would want to redecorate my house it's not easy Iam really stuck in the end but I know one day I will rise I have even gone to some organisations to seek for their help so that I can bring the other kids to Uk that will work out easy for me Uk immigration won't get me a permit for them as long as Iam not earning much....
father.. It is normal to dream of your husband..I wish I had more dreams of my husband, Dennis..who passed suddenly 21 months ago in his sleep of a heart attack..
But I've had many signs from my skeptic Dennis that he is still around as have my children and grandchildren..
Talk to your children and explain to them how you're feeling and ask them if they want or need to talk about your husbands passing..Tell them about your dreams and that it's alright to cry..
Come here often there are many of us who are a little farther along in our journey through grieve and can help you..Just know the feelings you are having right now are the same feelings most of us have experienced..
There are three good Chicken Soup for the Soul books, you might want to get..
Dreams and Premonitions....
Miraculous Messages from Heaven..
Touched by An Angel...
Take care peace and hugs...Gail..
Don't cry because it's over..smile because it happened..
I have grandchildren the same ages as your children. They all react in their own way. I often feel the little twins are naughtier when I visit as their Poppy isn't with me. The older one is a lot quieter but has made a collection of Poppy memories in her bedroom. I constantly include Poppy in the conversation and by doing this I hope to keep his memory alive and also, however heart breaking it may be, it does teach them about life.
I am sure you are doing an absolutely magnificent job with your children. Much love xx