Widows & Widowers Support Group
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My wives family want to come stay with her. The problem is that for me, I get uptight when people stay too long. I can only handle 2 people at a time here at our home and any more it starts to feel I am running a hotel. I don't know how to deal with this situation gracefully. Today my dying wifes sister came up and I could tell she would have spent the night (that had not been discussed ahead of time). I told her after a few hours that we were good at the present time and thanked her for coming and that I would be calling on her again.
Truth? I don't want this to be grand central station. How do I gracefully make my needs known without alienating people?
Note: the tiny house should be more comfortable than your home.
TV, a mini fridge, etc
yeah it might cost you, but you will live peacefully for the rest of your life
and here is what relatives do, they bring more people when they enjoy your place, you should implant this thought that your place is cumber sum or crowded or tight