Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I buried her yesterday and I can say that was the worst day of my life. I know that this is all a process that I have to go through and I am so glad that I have my faith God. I wish I had told her that I loved her more.
Since I buried my husband I can understand why the pain you feel I went through do many emotions I can't remember them all. The important thing is you're love still remember them. They are not here in the physical world. But they let us know with signs and knowledge. Please take care of you now and we.will talk more
Sharon
I feel this deep sadness and I can’t stop crying all day.
I feel terrible.. scattered his ashes in the Apple tree I our garden.
Planted some bulbs hoping to bloom in the spring.
I got a cake and now he’s not here ....,
I truly do, even if those words weren't frequently spoken she knows now. When we lose a loved
one I believe we are still spiritually connected.
For me, just saying simple words, "Lord help me," And asking to go within my heart, Focusing on my breath, help me to stay in Present Moment. Taking it one day, one moment at a time.
Crying has also helped me, letting myself feel grief, and loving myself simultaneously, knowing,
that every day will get just a little better. (Even if it feels like it won't, it will)
My prayers are with you Christopher!
Lucia