Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Tomorrow it's 5 months since Rob's last day in life. I needed something. I've been wanting some tattoos so on a whim I got one of them today. My arm now says "love you more". The appropriate response was "not possible! ". We said it to each other. My daughter and I now carry on the ritual. And my tattoo makes me smile every time I see it.
I can't help but have this memory that I wish I could forget. One of the kid's I used to work with would have visits from their mother on weekends. The lady would always wear a low cut top that I wish she had not. Anyway, the reason for this is she had the pills berry dough boy tattooed on the top of her left breast. So when she leaned over a little he would be smiling at you from over the top of her bra. An image I would go under hypnosis to forget. Sorry if this was inappropriate to write but it just pops in my head every time someone mentions tattoos.
Peace, Tim
My Donald had a very ugly panther that took up 2/3rds of his arm. Turns out it was covering the name of a woman he thought he loved for about a day in his life. He said he was drunk when the name went on and then drunk when the panther was put on. Moral of story...think it out very carefully while sober before doing something so permanent.