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Ok I was panicked and so upset because I just did not want to deal with bad neighbors or anymore stress... He honestly scared me last time, and I walked on eggshells for 2 wks....
BUT my good neighbors and your posts have me breathing a deep breath -
they all got together and are setting up watches on my water when it gets turned off....and they are working to get materials to put up a gate structure for me if need to...HOW great is that....it would just mean Bill (BN) could not force himself into my place - and if he walked the long driveway my dog would be so alertive we agreed .....AND I am to let them know if I am going to be gone all day and they will make drivebys ...
All offered on their own...
They lectured me on not letting this get to me, take a deep breathe, and do not let him upset me or bully me either.
SO I have destressed still little leery but know I am not alone....
BUT my good neighbors and your posts have me breathing a deep breath -
they all got together and are setting up watches on my water when it gets turned off....and they are working to get materials to put up a gate structure for me if need to...HOW great is that....it would just mean Bill (BN) could not force himself into my place - and if he walked the long driveway my dog would be so alertive we agreed .....AND I am to let them know if I am going to be gone all day and they will make drivebys ...
All offered on their own...
They lectured me on not letting this get to me, take a deep breathe, and do not let him upset me or bully me either.
SO I have destressed still little leery but know I am not alone....
inmemoryofhattie
Oh how great is that...your good neighbors there!...and here...yea for good neighbors...I have them now after many years, just when I might need them on both sides of me....
deleted_user
Glad to hear that you do have some good neighbors that are willing to help you out. Hopefully you will be able to relax a little knowing they are there for you....hugs
Shrn
Great news. That is wonderful. Sharon
missmyhero
:-)
deleted_user
:-) Great news
cleodoggie
Glad things are working out for you. Sounds like you have Angels for neighbors. I have one of them and it helps to know they are there when you need them. Take care. hugs, Chris
NewRoadsForMe
I'm so glad to hear you are getting the support (got your back) that you need. Stress (unnecessary caused by your BN) is very unhealthy as we all know. I'll be so glad when this issue is resolved and fades into the background of your life. I admire your courage to deal with all of this! You have encouraged us all!
deleted_user
Your neighbor sounds like one miserable person--I have one of those too living next to me. I'd hate to be that unhappy that I had to make others unhappy too. I'm glad you're getting some help...
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