Got a question for everybody. Background first. My wife of 15 years died in January of this year, so it has been the year of firsts. Well the first holidays are coming. My grief counselor said that it was important to keep up traditions that meant something to us. I have been trying to do that, but today was the hardest day I have had in months. I went Christmas shopping for my 5 yr old. Got him his first real Tonka truck, lol. That about killed me. I think this Christmas shopping is going to be the death of me. What was the hardest thing you did the first year?
Posts You May Be Interested In
I have been on here less and less. Lord knows I am trying hard to create another good life for myself. Some of what I am doing is out of necessity. For example, I came back from my vacation with a much emptier purse, so I am working on a budget plan. It may be a little flexible, but when you find yourself broke two days before the next check, you don't want those bouncies from the bank. I...
Have any of you moved on with someone else and started a new journey?Was there were time you felt comfortable to put away pictures of your late spouse in consideration of the other person? Does the other person should understand if you don’t want to put away your past life?