Widows & Widowers Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

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Rick51 01/30/2018

Is it just me?

raininseattle 01/30/2018

What's the plan and what's the end goal?

Are you talking about something like this?
https://www.dailystrength.org/group/widows-widowers/discussion/no-one-tells-you-this-about-loss-so-i-will

Rick51 01/30/2018

No plan. No goal. Just fantasies.

raininseattle 01/30/2018

Sure at the beginning. But only to be with my love and not to end my misery (so to speak). I let nature decide when it is fed up with me.

Rick51 01/30/2018

Some dream of being on a white sandy beach, I dream of a tsunami.

raininseattle 01/30/2018

Like the movie "The Day After Tomorrow"?

Rick51 01/30/2018

Too cold.

raininseattle 01/30/2018

Well then you've got to go to places where they have hotsprings.

The word I'm thinking is indifferent. There doesn't seem to be much meaning going one way or the other. And I'm not particularly depressed.

raininseattle 01/31/2018

Not really. Nothing is dragging me down in particular. I feel a responsibility to take good care of my love. Right now I'm living for myself. You can say unmotivated.

shewearsblack17 01/31/2018

No, no, no. That is the last thing I want to happen. I do fantasize about trying to have a good life again some day.

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