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Ty2015
Ty2015

Hi all, my husband passed away just 2 months ago on September 8th, well I guess he got tired of seeing his babe in so much pain, so he came to visit me in my dream for the very first time,  excatly 3 months after on November 8th, call me weird but I do believe in forever love. Although I can only remember a couple parts of it, I feel he came here to me to help me heal, he wanted me to know he was doing OK, when I saw him standing in the field we ran to one another, and I jumped up on him and we hugged for what seemed like forever, it was great!!..and in another part he was helping me to put dishes in a high cabinet in a new kitchen...that's all I can remember really, but I tell you I woke up feeling better than I have felt since he has left this earth. I thought, wow, my husband took such good care of me that even in his physical absence, he is still trying to take care of me now. I really,  really needed that, I have been very sick in my body for the past 2 weeks, just couldn't shake what was going on with me, it had gotten so bad, that if I cried I was getting instant, throbbin pain, unreal, I have never experienced a migraine before. I know he must of really pleaded to come see about me. I will always love my Michael until the end of time.  Just a reminder that our love will always be in our heart.

Markie
Markie
Hello Ty, Wonderful post...very uplifting
Blessings, Peace, Healing and Hope for all of us today and for all that are hurting... Mark
sheason
sheason
My husband passed away a month ago. I dreamt about him 3 days ago... before I went to bed.. I talked to him as if he's there.. I asked him to make love to me in my dreams, instead we were dancing.. were very close to each other... no words has been spoken.. we look eye to eye.. the energy of our love together is very very strong .. I never felt so much strong energy like that before even when he was alive.. it feels like an energy of an eternal love... We were so happy but he look so sad at the same time.. his eyes looks so sad (probably because he knew he left me too early with alcohol abuse.) He's 47 and im 31. When I woke up that morning it makes me feel energize giving me hope that death means he just moved to the other dimension (heaven) and knowing I'll be seeing him again and be with him again eternally with God. I know he is watching over me everyday and that's for sure.
MrsBrielle
MrsBrielle
I too had a dream that my husband came to visit me. He came up from behind and hugged me so tight. It felt so warm, so real, so right. I miss his hugs. I even miss him grabbing my butt every chance he could. Sometimes I still wait for the feeling of a hand.
tim57
tim57
My wife went back home to heaven in August of 2015. She came to me twice in my dreams over those next few months. Both times she appeared to me exactly the way she looked when we met. In our thirties. She had the brightest smile and her voice was young and strong. It was later doing research on heaven and the after life that I learned that in our spiritual bodies we will appear as we did in our thirties. I didn't know this when she came. If anyone needs proof there it is. Why would I see her in this form and not the way she looked before she left. And before I knew about the appearance of our spiritual bodies. They do visit us when God allows them to. I really need her to visit me soon again.
Take care, Tim
Ty2015
Ty2015
Wow, I do believe they visit us in their younger days...my husband was not the same sick, frail man that left this world, but e was big and buff like our younger days, so strong, I'm telling you all he picked me up and held me and hugged me tightly for a long time. It was wonderful, it made me feel the best I have since his passing, my husband always told me I was his soulmate, I definitely believe that.
shelda
shelda
I haven't had dreams in years I think..finally went to the doctor and told her i had problems remembering things to see what she would say ,,,and now she thinks i may have mental issues too...
luckydaughter
luckydaughter
I wish I would have a dream like that.
Community LeaderShrn
Shrn
I have dreamed of my husband too and have even felt his presence while I go through my day. It took time for me to be aware of this presence. I think my grief was too powerful to understand more than he was gone. I also believe that love remains forever and they are watching over us in a spiritual way. Sometimes in a warm breeze or hearing the words in my heart I know he would say. It comforts my soul. Sharon
Unique
Unique
Your are so lucky to dream about your husband. I believe those we lost communicate through our dreams. My daughter has already had two about her father. I've seen signs and feel his presence but no dream yet. I know he will come in a dream when its the right time. He passed on 10/20. Still feels surreal...