My husband has been gone 15 months now, my 3 kids and I are getting thru each day one step at a time. For anyone that new to loss please believe me and others when we tell you soon everyone will be gone and you’ll be by yourself, I was in denial but it has come true. I wanted to post about my Broken relationship with my sister. My sister became very distant about 2months after the funeral. She just moved on with her life, and her new boyfriend soon to be husband told her I’m very closed off and don’t interact. Those words hurt and what’s worse is that she believes him. She has also taken every opportunity to say how her boyfriend soon to be husband will be much different than my late husband. My husband and I weren’t rich by any means but when she got divorced 3yrs ago we stepped in and helped without financially and in other ways without her having to ask. During her divorce she had major surgery and I made meals and helped her with her kids and house. Although we’ve never been BFF sisters we were somewhat close. Recently she told me that she doesn’t understand why she hasn’t seen me much the last year. I was in disbelief at that comment. I’m hurting so bad and becoming angry at all the personal jabs and how she has disappeared from my life. I really thought she would have stuck by me like I did for her during her hard time. I’m really trying to let it go and not hold a grudge but it hurts. Has anyone been thru this that can give advice?
I lost my husband 4 months ago and I'm feeling so alone
Have any of you made a big decision after the death of your loved one? Like a move, new job things like that. And if you did was it a good decision or have you regretted not waiting till the fog cleared.