Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Mary
First of all, smashing your car is one of the last things any of us needs these days. And it does seem like a horrible week for us as DS.
( btw, I apologize for my id for this site - it's from a video game and I thought I'd be the only one seeing it, lol )
That red cone in the dark was not very effective. I would think that they should be required to rope of an area around it to prevent what happened to you from happening. That does not help, I know. Hopefully insurance will cover most of it.
As I messaged Losvegasgirl, my basement flooded ( actually the sewer backed up ) on four different times over the years ( finally solved the problem by losing a tree by the drain in the front yard ). But each time it was a horrible mess because the basement is finished. Each time we had to have the carpet replaced, walls sanitized, Yatta, Yatta - misery for a month or more.
But after a while things were back to normal. It's just getting over the inertia that you have to spend the energy to fix everything. And energy is what we don't have a lot of these days.
So, sending some virtual energy your way...
Good luck, Bob
This week the cold has kept me in and safe for the most part only going to my last classes. My car need some mechanical things done, but I need to find new people to do them, that I trust.