I am over the two year mark now - about 26 months, and I have been through the standard phases of numbness, wanting to die then realizing that I still have a purpose in this life, enjoying life again, still feeling lonely, etc. I have recently moved into a "seniors" apartment building which kept me very busy for several weeks and am now all unpacked and settled in. For several years I felt very unsettled - during that time my husband was living in an assisted living facility, I lost my job at age 59 and was unable able to get another one, then lost my husband, moved to a smaller apartment for one year, changed churches, and finally moved here. Instead of finally feeling settled, I feel like I am still waiting for something - but I am not quite sure what. Is this just me, or this another one of those stages of grieving that nobody tells you about? Any other long-term widows out there who can share some insight about this? laurabp
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