I just had this idea pop into my head to create a list of things that people either did for me right after Brad passed or things that would have been helpful and things that would be helpful not just immediately after but months later as well. For example, my mother and grandmother came over and helped me with some normal cleaning, nothing big. And they were very respectful as to ask before moving or removing anything. But since then it has all been up to me, which means the house is a wreck because I just don't want to do it. No matter what anybody helped with there would still be clutter because Brad just had so much random stuff! But right now there are dishes in the sink, floors that need to be cleaned, ect. I am getting ready to attempt to fold the clothes that have been sitting on my couch for 2 weeks now! But things like that that people don't realize are so difficult months later. If they've never experienced this they don't know that months later your still struggling everyday.

What are your thoughts? What are things people did for you? or what were things that would have been helpful to you?