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Dreams

Patswife
Patswife
Ten months ago when I started this horrible new journey, I couldn't sleep much less dream. Now I sleep better, not well, but better and my dreams are so vibrant. Sometimes with my Beloved Pat, sometimes with old friends. The odd thing is is that I can remember them, never could before.
Anyone else experiencing this? Thanks and Hugs, Wendy
driveler
driveler
I have always rememberedmy dreams, but have MANY dreams of my late husband and really enjoy our "visits". I have them nearly every day... and am glad for that,
the dream I just had though was not about him but was a "VERY INTERESTING" dream about someone whom I would not be likely to do the things that we were doing in the dream! LOL
Patswife
Patswife
HA HA HA
swindy
swindy
I am into my 7th month on this journey and I have had a couple of dreams of Rodger but I cannot see his face I just know that it is him. I would love to see his face again and maybe some day I will. Diane
Patswife
Patswife
In my dream last night I was reserving seats for a (free) concert, by putting my jacket on them, then trying to call Pat on my cell phone but it was missing one number I needed to complete the call. Sheesh!
jay12345
jay12345
Hi Wendy,

I'm glad you're sleeping a bit better. I envy you that your dreams are so vibrant & that you can remember them now.

For some reason I rarely dream about my lovely wife, or if I do I don't remember them. The few dreams I have these days is about dull stuff like work.

Jay