Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I'm finding this year the hardest of all. 5 yrs I just can't get my head around it. We were still fighting Dr.s to do the test they said they were going to do but never did. He was still with us but in so much pain and asked to see his Grands and Great-grands. Who knew it would be the last time.
I've come a long way in 5 years moved sold our home, moved 2 more times. Because of my vision depent so much on my daughter.
Right now our youngest Great-son who is 5 yrs old has been hospitalized as his CK is high, his BP was high and temp. First they were going to send him home said it was the flu. I burst into tears as that is what they kept doing to Ken. Go home ride it out its the flu. It was septis.
So worried for this little guy as high readings of CK can destroy muscles and heart. Praying they get it undercontroll soon. He is on a push of IV fluids.
Gosh I wish my Ken was here. I can smell his his cap and smell his scent. Been wearing my necklace with his ashes in it to feel him near.
Just going to let the day pass with love
I've come a long way in 5 years moved sold our home, moved 2 more times. Because of my vision depent so much on my daughter.
Right now our youngest Great-son who is 5 yrs old has been hospitalized as his CK is high, his BP was high and temp. First they were going to send him home said it was the flu. I burst into tears as that is what they kept doing to Ken. Go home ride it out its the flu. It was septis.
So worried for this little guy as high readings of CK can destroy muscles and heart. Praying they get it undercontroll soon. He is on a push of IV fluids.
Gosh I wish my Ken was here. I can smell his his cap and smell his scent. Been wearing my necklace with his ashes in it to feel him near.
Just going to let the day pass with love
Good Morning Sweetcheeks
I love you always
As I wiped tears from his cheeks he tried to smile and mouth love you. Closed his eyes never to open them again.
I am less than three months into widowhood. I cannot fathom what five years without my rock and my soft place to fall all wrapped into one will feel. Part of me hopes to never know.
I'll also add you and yours to my prayers. I know it's hard sometimes but put it in God's hands and the best will come out. He is in control of all things. Just stay in faith for that special day when we reunite.
Peace, Tim
You have done so much living in the past five years and your Ken would be so proud. My two year is tomorrow. Keep us updated.
I hope and pray your little fellow comes through this with no problems. Do let us know. I know this must be terrible for all of you. Sending you all Love, Hugs, and prayers, Martha
Our little one was discharged from hospital. The levels have come down from 3700 to 2100 si they are coming the right wasy. Still has low grade fever. Goes and has bloodwork at 8 in the more and a 1pm drs appt with his pediatrician.